Rhonda posted this in the thread https://www.degreeinfo.com/index.php?threads/my-wifes-cancer.55807/, where it could get lost, so I've reposted it here. So far, I've seen no confirmation of this. However, Abner has not posted on his Facebook page since 7/17/19, and Kim's last post to her Facebook page was on 8/28/19. Rhonda is not listed as a friend on either of their Facebook pages, but Kim is listed as a friend on Rhonda's Facebook page. There was no obit on Abner in their local newspaper (the Orange County Register), nor on Kim (but it would be too early for that at this time). Based on Kim's inclusion on Rhonda's friend list, it would appear that this is a legit report. Abner was a member of DI for over 15 years and had posted over 8,500 messages, currently the 6th highest count of all users.